{"id":1230,"date":"2011-01-11T04:00:57","date_gmt":"2011-01-11T08:00:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.jbarrywatts.com\/blog\/?p=1230"},"modified":"2010-12-31T19:37:38","modified_gmt":"2010-12-31T23:37:38","slug":"keeping-a-simple-secret","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/old.jbarrywatts.com\/blog\/2011\/01\/11\/keeping-a-simple-secret\/","title":{"rendered":"Keeping a Simple Secret"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A friend of mine told me last week that he changes his phone number \u00a0once a year because too many people get it, then give it out to too many other people. I knew his number had changed because I&#8217;d tried to call him and the guy who answered said &#8220;I don&#8217;t know who (insert name here) is, but I sure get alot of telephone calls for him.&#8221; Now I know why.<\/p>\n<p>My friend is a popular speaker in his field and author in his genre. My guess is he speaks to a few hundred thousand people a year. So he&#8217;s kinda big time, or at least a big fish in the pond he swims in. I can imagine that his number might easily get passed by people who want other people to know that they are &#8220;in&#8221; because they have (insert big time speaker \/ author&#8217;s name here) personal cell phone number. Me? Heck, I could put mine on billboards and nobody would call me.<\/p>\n<p>Some people advertise their cell phone number on their business card. Others of us don&#8217;t. I don&#8217;t because my phone is with me all the time and I don&#8217;t always want to be accessible to every Tom, Dick &amp; Harry. My office and home numbers are public. If someone wants me they can leave me a message at the office and I&#8217;ll decide how to respond. That&#8217;s how I keep control of who has my cell number.<\/p>\n<p>All this brings me to a little matter of etiquette. Do you keep other folks private info private? You should.<\/p>\n<p>Call me and ask for somebody&#8217;s cell phone number, and I&#8217;m going to be pretty particular about whether I give that number out.<\/p>\n<p>You should be, too. When you get to be big time, you&#8217;ll appreciate others doing the same for you.<\/p>\n<p>Hey Ed, call me. I&#8217;d call you , but I don&#8217;t have your new number.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A friend of mine told me last week that he changes his phone number \u00a0once a year because too many people get it, then give it out to too many other people. I knew his number had changed because I&#8217;d tried to call him and the guy who answered said &#8220;I don&#8217;t know who (insert [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1230","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/old.jbarrywatts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1230","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/old.jbarrywatts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/old.jbarrywatts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/old.jbarrywatts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/old.jbarrywatts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1230"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/old.jbarrywatts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1230\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1234,"href":"https:\/\/old.jbarrywatts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1230\/revisions\/1234"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/old.jbarrywatts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1230"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/old.jbarrywatts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1230"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/old.jbarrywatts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1230"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}